“We see Whitney in everything that is good.”
Whitney Robeson
Whitney Harlow Robeson was born on Aug. 1, 2003, in Richmond, Virginia, to her loving parents, Carin “Carrie” Grunkemeyer Robeson and J. Matthew Robeson, with whom she shared a deeply meaningful bond, as well as with her brother, Griffin Brinck Robeson, and her sister, Payton Grace Robeson. She was cherished by her family, friends, bosses and coworkers — an enduring reflection of the kindness and light she brought into every relationship.
On March 7, Whitney, 22, was killed in an accidental shooting at a home in Trussville, Alabama.
Whitney graduated with honors from the Collegiate School in 2021, where her passion for involvement and commitment to excellence were evident through her participation in field hockey, lacrosse and the swim team. She carried this same spirit to Auburn University — her first-choice school — where she flourished as a student in the interior design program, a sister of Delta Gamma and a proud supporter of Auburn traditions. She graduated summa cum laude in May 2025 with a bachelor's degree in interior design.
Whitney was a rare kind of light — consistent, brilliant and endlessly present in the lives she touched. She is remembered as their sunshine, whose joy and radiance continue to glow in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Whitney’s Heart
Grigsby and Whitney's deep friendship grew through their sorority, in which they met as freshmen, and formed a meaningful connection that lasted throughout their undergraduate years. Grigsby shared that every moment together felt worthwhile, filled with laughter and a genuine sense of understanding. Even ordinary routines took on meaning in Whitney's presence as Grigsby reflected on coffee runs, "Dancing with the Stars" watch parties, cooking nights, social events and PowerPoint nights, among other shared moments.
“It’s just those simple moments that you really appreciate and you’ll always remember,” Grigsby said.
That sentiment echoed across others who knew her. Emmy Ferris, another sorority sister, remembered Whitney's source of lightness.
“She was always smiling, always down to have fun. Every time you saw her, she had a smile on her face,” Ferris said.
Ferris described Whitney as someone whose positivity was constant and effortlessly present. She added that Whitney built connections easily and was loved across different groups on campus. Whitney was a few years older than Ferris, and Ferris recalled the advice Whitney offered: fashion, relationships and life.
“I think everyone would say that Whitney was a friend to all,” Ferris said.
Both Ferris and Grigsby expressed that Whitney deeply cared for others and was, in turn, deeply loved by many in return.
Contagious Joy and Zeal
If there was one quality that defined Whitney most clearly, it was joy.
“She was a walking light of joy with the biggest smile,” Ferris said, reflecting on the joyful moments they shared together, including birthday celebrations and time spent at social gatherings with friends. Whitney's happiness was a defining quality that continues to shape Ferris’s life today.
Grigsby described the same unmistakable quality: “In everything she did, she had so much joy,” recounting memories where the two never failed to laugh together. She described Whitney's presence as so genuine and uplifting that it left a lasting impression, recalling how she knew early on in the friendship, “This is a person I want in my life forever.”
A Keen Attention to Detail
Beyond her relationships, Whitney's presence was also defined by her discipline and creative vision. Intertwined with Whitney's passionate heart was an attentive mind, reflected in her dedication as a student in Auburn University’s interior design program. Her commitment to her studies highlighted not only her creativity but also her focus and drive to pursue her goals with intention. Grigsby and Ferris shared that her work was beautiful and detailed, mirroring her whimsical and artistic nature.
Whitney's drive and determination produced designs and projects that inspired and awed those who viewed them, leaving a lasting influence on those around her. Her strong work ethic served as an inspiration for others, reflecting the same passion and intentionality she brought to every aspect of her life.
“Her self-confidence, her drive — I aspire to be like her one day and have goals like hers. To have such a lust for life, because she truly lived her life to the fullest in everything that she did,” Grigsby said.
A Love for Exploration
Whitney had a deep love for travel. While she had always been naturally confident, close friends noted that she developed a new level of self-assurance and passion for her aspirations following her junior-year semester abroad in Italy.
“She had a new way of thinking, and it was really inspiring,” Grigsby said.
A Final Reflection
Following Whitney’s death, Grigsby and her friends gathered at the beach to reflect on and honor the life of their close friend. As spring had just begun to emerge after a difficult winter, Grigsby recalled the sunset that evening as “one of the most beautiful ever.”
“We could really feel her there,” Grigsby added.
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